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I certainly didnt know your story until now. "It got to a point where I gave up traveling the world the more I went to Japan, the more obsessive I got.". i think a lot of women would instead just go on being unhappy just to keep their families happy in my book a happy mom equals a happy family! Bless you! GREAT! Well said, Traci! WebThis is my interpretation of life. All the best, and continued happiness! but it is so worth it! Its so true about realizing whats really important in life. Thank you for sharing your insight! Traci, Come Saturdays, I was ready to get out and go and having worked 2 jobs all week and not getting home till 10:30 or 11 pm, he was ready to stay home. Thank you for sharing this. We are broke as a joke as a result of me not bringing in an income and while we are still able to pay our mortgage, car payment, etc. We had money to eat out whenever we wanted. Thank you so much for speaking from your heart! Of course, money is very tight, but I hold our memories tighter. Michiganhome. I loved your post! One example of that is saying "itadakimasu" before you eat, which means receiving the food in front of you with humility a way of showing appreciation for everyone involved in its preparation. D. Shes delighted with the results. I know it doesnt seem like that now, but, trust me, someday you will see! I have been home for 15 years and we have 7 children. We all do what we must do but REALLY seeing what is important in our lives is of utmost importance. Working can be hard but it also can be great. That post was very inspiring to me. I was always tired and grouchy though from not getting enough sleep. Before you know it they are walking down the isle with their own spouse. Ive got 3 at home and have been EXACTLY where you are. I noticed my kids werent doing as well in school either. But these are the years that your memories are being made. 385 matching entries found. You are rightwe need to embrace each season. You sound like a smart and strong Christian God will bless you for your faithfulness to Him and your family. I bet when they are grown and married, theyll remember what all you and your husband did to make ends meet and what you gave up to be with them at home. Thank you for sharing it has been an encouragement! I am crying as I write this. I guess its only something a mother can understand. I taught for 10 years before having my kids. What is the difference between "What time you will reach" and "What time you will be reaching"? Anthony Michael Hall has secretly been a dad for more than a month. :) Its quit the juggling act. Such a beautiful post. When others have thought (or even said) what a waste. "It is one of the most powerful tools that I've picked up. A mother in todays world has so many options but with them come so many decisions that are challenging to make. You both make me want to be the best person I can be. Im sure it makes you a better mommy to those beautiful boys. I was also a teacher until I started having children. This country changed my life. I pray that I can find the same contentment and will be happy being broke. "Happier then a butchers dog." Getting to T3 is a lot cheaper now in terms of gold, but if you're starting in T1 it'll still take time to farm the materials needed to hone. Of course I would love to be able to stay home with them all of the time instead of going back to work, but it just isnt possible at this time. (Name), we couldnt be more thrilled to welcome you to our family. 5. Huge congrats on your wedding day! Its hard to sit back with my garage sale toys and clothes and watch as my friends have the latest and newest. I love how you spoke about your experiences and your feelings. (Name), were so happy youve found the one. 6. Congratulations, you two. Thank you for sharing your story. exam. he asked. I read your blog often but rarely respond. So, after much prayer and a few meltdownsI will be going to work at a craft/scrapbooking/consignment store and cupcake bakery for minimum wage. I stepped down from my job and now I only fill in maybe 1 shift a month. Even if you are broke :) We grew up having just the basics, but with SO MUCH LOVE! Its all about contentment, isnt it?!!! You made the right choice and deep down I know we will too. The manager of the dept. My boys got to attend there for free, and I got to get out of the house and make a little money. I am so lucky to be able to go into my kids school and help out. . Hi Traci, I had a career for 16 years and now I am a full time stay at home mom to two little ones. Working moms love their kids, for sure! Stumble out, and I'm headed for the van. "That became the nature of my being here giving and receiving kindness.". Way to put things in perspective in a non-judgemental way :) I remember when we were struggling & I honestly questioned why we were poor when I was choosing to stay home & bring my boys up Gods way. The company Before getting married and having my first child I had a great career in management making an amazing salary but my greatest desire in life was to be a stay-at-home mom. I used to travel to other countries but every time I was somewhere else, I would always be like, 'Why am I not in Japan instead?'" Cheesie shared her experience undergoing four days of "Yamabushi training" last year at Dewa Sanzan, the three mountains in Yamagata Prefecture that are believed to be sacred. Traci, I loved reading this!! Making that call to my principal was one of the hardest calls I ever made. It is true. I was really struggling with finding contentment in being a stay-at-home mom. I have worked part time to make ends meet at times, but have always made sure it fitted around my own childrens schedules. God does have a plan for each of us. This post is just perfect! It spoke volumes to me today. Who had time to plan dinner? Bless you! My husband and I decided for me not to work when we got married last year to prepare for being a stay at home mother one day. it feels like a constant tension with no relief. I envy your life sometimes when you write because I had the Jerry Springer upbringing and it has continued into my adulthood. Walter Farley. More than likely the woman works because they think they have to have more. Thank you for this post, I have been dealing with those feeling for a long time. The $90 million project was doomed by equipment problems and slow production. I couldn't be any happier. I ate too much. She said the country's practices and philosophies have greatly enriched her life, and tells CNBC Make It about three of them. Traci. Enjoy the short time you have with your beautiful children.before you know it they will be off to college and their careers..the time you invest in your children is one of the great blessings of being a mother. Lost a friend, couldnt be happier. Thats what He promised to do! Such a great post!! Im sure everybody thinks the grass is greener on the otherside but there are pros and cons to every decision. Pictured here is "irabu-jiru", or sea snake soup, a delicacy from Kudaka island. Yall no Im not a fashi, Yall, our homes front porch needed a little, Love mixing up my protein shakes in this cute litt, Oh, what a night! As my mom always told me, God has a soft spot in his heart for mothers because He knows all that they do to love and care for their families.. God bless you! I was a teachers aide at my daughters school for 5 years and loved it, the kids and my fellow co-workers. Jonathan and Luke loved being there and interacting with other children. I love staying at home with my kids, but I have definitely have had my times of feeling discontent. Right now, Jonathan is in fifth grade, Luke in third, Adam in first, and Eli is home with me. Cheesie's love for Japan is also deeply rooted in how it has taught her to accept herself and circumstances. I am a full time working mom. Enjoy your season Traci!!! I had wanted to be with my kids from the time my daughter was born, but we just couldnt afford it. And I didnt have time for my husband, because I was always working on school work. If you think Taylor Swift and Kanye West kissed and made up after the VMA Awards debacle 14 years ago, then you're dead wrong and there's now video to prove it. However, when I get discouraged I remember that I am making a difference One little heartbeat at a time!. thank you. I am proud that I make good choices despite my role models that I had. She wanted me to love the opportunity I had to stay home with them. It seems endless. I used to work at a local gas station- normally the graveyard shift. I know working and having extra money was fulfilling but I think its great that you got to quit again and it seems to me, that God gave you the opportunity to step back and see how fleeting those childhood times are and how to really enjoy being back home with them. I always appreciate these posts from you. I am a working mother, full time, with an hour commute each way to work. I may still go back to teaching in a few years when all the boys are in school. Hoping that I get to experience being a stay at home mom some day but if it is not Gods will, then may He help me to be content where I am. Sometimes I miss the friendships and the feeling of importance but I know I am doing the most important job. afm-records.de. it would be so much harder for me to work and be a good mom at the same time! I don't own any appliances or any clothes. I had the extra money last year, and got to buy what I wanted at the mall, and it left me feeling empty. Let me encourage you to hang in there. James Suzman. Woman: Is Paula lazy, as usual, this semester? 9. Then I became pregnant with my fourth child. Posted by 2 years ago. It is such a wonderful opportunity and I need to take advantage of it. So many of us have had the push and pull of decisions with returning to work or staying home. WebWoman: I couldnt be happier. so i think that is something to be proud of. God bless! I know your Mom is looking down from heaven, looking and feeling very proud of you. I feel rich when I can read books with my boys and watch tv at night because I have no lesson plans to get ready the next day. p.s. These were the same words he said to me before he died. Keep up the good work! The good thing, well theres a lot of good things learned from these kinds of life lessons, but the wonderful thing is the memories it makes. I had to have myself ready, my kids ready, lunches ready, backpacks ready. 240. 11,386 views, added to favorites 269 times. What a beautiful post. I would make and sell ornaments around Christmas time to help pay for Christmas. We would be able to buy a nicer home and cars. The job was only 2 miles from our house, I found a babysitter that I knew that watched my kids for me for only $20 each child a week. I have a 20 month old daughter and just found out we are expecting #2 in November. Welcome to the year 2030. I know how hard it is to be a working mother. I have worked for the previous 10 years as an accountant and then a teacher at a college. You're under my skin, and I'm lettin' it fester. I read every word of it thank you! We loved parenting so much we adopted three children to complete our 3rd family. Its just not worth the extra money to work full-time for exactly the reasons you listed!!! Thank you. I knew it was time to go part-time when I couldnt go to any of my kids activities and special events anymore. Im so glad you wrote this. And I dont know how they do it all. (A) Paula is always lazy. Our oldest children are 31,29 and 27. I think back on those days and feel so ashamed of myself for that. I am looking forward to coming back here and savoring more of your blog, much like a sweetly anticipated dessert! I don't own a car. And now you get the privilege of staying home with your babies! I am a stay at home mother of four children, and have always been. 385 matching entries found. We will have to hang tuff together. She is single as well, and will be starting college in the fall. They grow up so fast. He will provide. (D) Shes delighted with the results. Seeing Jonathan open for @littlebigt, My Spring Shoe Haul! This being her last year in elementary school. You brought tears to my eyes! Thank you so much, Rebecca! As a mom, we do the best we can and everyday is a learning experience. It was during this time our dear son Jarrod was taken from our care and went to be in the arms of Jesus. Web29 votes, 10 comments. We kept children from 6 weeks of age up to preschool. I find that being the best mom that I can be is so much about balance, and I felt the most balanced when I worked part-time. That was a very sweet post, Traci. I know first hand how crazy mornings can be, and at night, I sometimes put off putting my children to bed because I just want to snuggle and play with them. What an incredible post. Please do not read into it that way. . Traci, very well spoken. Gratitude. Been feeling a bit discouraged myself lately so needed this encouragement. kudos to those who can!!). And I believe that He will direct you in how to deal with your finances. I have been at home looking after my kids since my first baby was born nearly 18 years ago. That was before most were shopping there and I was able to have a closet full of designer clothes that looked like they had only been worn a couple of times. I recently had a miscarriage so working and being away from our little boy has been hard. I have made a good life for my son and I have broke all the patterns of dysfunction. :) Being a SAHM mom has not always been my favorite thing to do in fact there have been many times that it has been demeaning (being pooped all over). I am struggling with this very topic right now and I know lots of women who work or dont work and constantly debate the pros and cons. In this book i have shared my experience from 19-24. I am just trying to soak up every moment God gives me with my family. Thanks again for your post, it summed everything up perfectly. I have had some of the same feelings both when I worked full-time and as a SAHM. I couldnt be any happier! My husband left when my youngest was 5 months old. However I just cant stand the thought of leaving them to work when I just wouldnt make much money. Zombies ate my neighbours, and so many more. You cannot put a price tag on the impact you are having on your child. So, I went to work as an administrative assistant, EXCELLENT pay, horrible place and people to work with. What a wonderful post. I don't own anything. My sitter was wonderful and were still friends to this day. Thank you for being so transparent and sharing from beneath your heart. I loved the little tiny paycheck I got each week. It doesnt matter. Couldnt be more happier than this. Mgr and of course, you know how that went over! I only have another two years or so with my son home (assuming he leaves home for college), and that makes me sad. As much as I wanted to stay home with my boys, I kept thinking that I would be happier if I worked. document.getElementById( "ak_js_1" ).setAttribute( "value", ( new Date() ).getTime() ); I love sharing my home DIY tips and tricks, renovation adventures, family shenanigans, and the HOPE beneath my heart! My husband does a lot of pastoral counseling and sometimes this is the subject. The poisonous serpent is caught by the islanders' bare hands. C. She could be somewhat happier. I discussed this with my husband and he admitted that he hated me working, even with the extra income. You are very right, life is very short and sadly we dont get do-overs. I wanted to see what it was like working full time again. I just nodded my head through your whole post. It helps to read about your situation. Traci, I worked part time helping put my husband through seminary. We dont know what will happen tomorrow-or even today. You truly inspire me!!! .and, as Im sure is no surprise to Him, I love, love, love it. Thank you, Dana. Happiness Life Self-Improvement Influence Being Happy Realization Opportunity Obligation Optimism Positive Thinking Better Than You Funny Get Well Sister Friend Cute Thank You Goodnight Mean :) also, great to see such strong faith!! including MOM. :). Thanks for this! 105 other terms for couldn't be happier- words and (C) The surgeon felt that the operation was necessary. This post just made my day! I taught for 6 years before Jonathan was born, and I truly loved it. 385 matching entries found. I too was a teacher then. Even though my husband cant physically be home much of the year, he is an incredibly supportive and loving husband and father. My kids are 5 and 18 months. You need to clear punika on at least 1 character. For months, for years, the guilt I knew I would feel if I decided I couldnt be married anymore kept me planted. I needed to hear this todayand I really appreciate your honesty! 2. I couldnt take it anymore so my husband and I decided I should quit to stay home with our kids. And it is only natural that if people are nice to you, you'll be nice to people," she said. That's because the practice is "carefully incorporated into daily life.". Now my kids are 45 and 42 and I remember how I felt staying at home all the time, my husband worked two jobs M-F. I became a person that I liked. Right now, Jonathan is in fifth grade, Luke in third, Adam in first, and Eli is home with me. Thanks for sharing, Christina I packed him a cooler with an extra lunch so he could eat it while he was driving to his second job. Yeah, I've had enough. With all of you. What a fabulous post! It's why women through history have often drugged themselves to the gills with whatever substance was acceptable just so they could forget how dead they were inside. WebI couldn't be more happy the two of you are getting married. Hi Traci, What a beautiful post and so timely for me.we are on a really tight budget this year & I have been doing the should I, shouldnt I questionmy hubby is not so keen as he works night shift & thinks it will really affect our family life & my M is worried his mum is going to be crazy with work hours like I used to!!! I too have had those feelings. "I love Japan very much and very [intensely]. Hind sight is 20/20. Janet, Thanks for your inspirational post to encourage me to keep pushing. We have helped each other with his career as a team. I just came across this post.I needed it. :). We had a lot of traditions in our family when the girls were growing up. A wonderful post, and so inspiring. Im a part time teacher with two young little girls, and I struggle with being pulled in so many directions as well. I am a homeschooling mom of 3 boys who also happens to be a pastors wife. Thank you for that. So, my husband and I decided to take the risk earlier than we had planned. :) I am a dietitian at a hospital and have struggled so hard with the right decision for our family. I think working part time is a win-win situation for many mothers. My mum was a SAHM so of course I want to emulate her and then at other times I think I am going nuts!!! But you are so right . Cheesie's love for Japan was evident even before her big move to Tokyo the Malaysian had traveled to Japan at least 56 times and covered all 47 prefectures. And who doesnt love a bargain. Woohoo! I just made the heart-breaking decision to resign from teaching. Id mow the lawn but he would still have to do the weed-wacker chore and anything else that needed his attention. And I hate that I rush around in the morning and lose my temper and I only have a few hours at night which are filled with the chores of parenthood and not the rewards. The Breakfast Club actor, 55, quietly welcomed his and his 32-year-old actress wife Lucia Oskerovas son who they have called Michael Anthony Hall II on 1 June but he has only now spoken about the joy of being a parent. Your story was an encouragement to me! My struggles and my joys. Every family and person is different so families just have to decide what works for them. And I love my trips to Goodwill! You carry on your Moms wisdom and bless us with it as well. I was just able to read this post! she added. My son was born September 2009 and I was lucky that here in Canada our maternity leave is 52 weeks. This mixed-breed dog is a pro at scoring goals, and viewers are honestly impressed. I have felt the same way. If you took unnecessary sick leave, you were not given a good rating or a good raise. My husband deploys in a week and in order to get out of debt I need to work part time (Im a registered nurse). I am a stay at home mom and have been since my first baby girl was born almost 12 years ago. I so needed to hear this today. What a great post Traci! WebShowing search results for "I Couldnt Be More Happier Than I" sorted by relevance. See a translation 1 like Traci, Thats why now Im so appreciative for what I do have. Now I am seeing things differently, it happened little by little.