4. No need to be disrespectful with the fact that you obviously disagree. Obese is beautiful. Nobody wants a wife anymore just something to screw until they get tired, not every man wants to be single, and trust me there are plenty of men who would like to find a wife. Maybe they are tired of being in the wrong 9/10 times. In the minority community, young black men are not respecting our black sistas. The reality is at some point you will likely want to settle down. Nothing, yeah thats thought. He can't find affordable housing in Vancouver for him and his son; She says it may be worthwhile to explore more creative ways of setting the minimum wage, such . BEEN THERE! I'm not proud to admit, but I was way too needy. that is one of the points I am trying to get across, you always see people either get labeled a good guy or proclaim themselves to be such. Guys think they are smarter than girls, girls think they are smarter than guys. Any man who disagrees with this may not be That man, but there Are men out here like that. Also understand that being confident isnt about getting any woman, but more so about not being afraid or bothered when you cant get a certain woman. They get angry because Im not interested & now Im a horrible person because I turned down a nice guy. I sought approval from girls. That doesnt mean the whole list will apply to one man, just that you would be hard pressed to find a man where at least one of these reasons do not accurately apply to them and their situation. Second, don't settle. But u have to have a job.. Cuz with those qualities when he loves he truly loves n when his women is loving n supporting n motivating he's he excels n becomes successful n goes thru whatever he needs to do to please his woman .. This is fodder for chicken-heads, no disrespect. Is the same for man as it is for woman, a quality person is fine with himself/herself and does not need to sleep around in order to figure out what he/wants. I go to church and get rejected everywhere I go nowadays. I was too needy. 2) The New Lease On Life Guy Not for the sake of not being single, but for the purpose of being able to live at your true potential. Arranged . Also did you read all 12 reasons, because I know some people are put off by the first 6 but then they become more receptive when the read the last 6. That is the best method of meeting someone compatible. It's easy to get a girlfriend if you're truly a handsome guy who has a nice personality. No manners and personality that most women dont have anymore these days when it comes to many of us serious men really looking for a relationship today. I have had to learn by the school of hard knocks is to be my own guy and do my own thing and try to watch out for the gold diggers. Re: Why Are Handsome Guys Always Single by dauntless15(m): 5:34am On Jul 26, 2016 I am not single, they are more on the wait list too Re: Why Are Handsome Guys Always Single by VanBommel ( m ): 6:27am On Jul 26 , 2016 A lot of good men feel challenged by a woman who can do for herself and they back away at any sight of assertiveness on her end. (Thumbs up). I honestly believe it is good to have some time where you take those things off the table and focus more on your development and growth. However, should we choose to engage in promiscuity (which is precisely what you have described in reason #11 on your male list), we are automatically labeled as whores and we are therefore labeled un-dateable/not marriage material.Hopefully I havent come off as too much of a bitch/radical feminist (yuck), but Ive had a few beers, so my opinions are probably extra strong in this moment. I am available to help have the discussion. If not, you will continue to struggle to find a great woman, or will meet women who just want to take advantage of you. Dats why! How about you shed some light about how this is wrong. Truth be told I was also a virgin at 20yrs old so I see nothing wrong with that or your decision to stay on that path. I am not trying to be mean, I promise, but lets be honest. I can certainly see why our family members really lucked out back in the old days when they met one another. 2) He has a character flaw and that's why he can't keep a girl. According to a study from the University of Nicosia in Cyprus, scientists led by Menelaos Apostolou anonymously quizzed and analyzed more than 6,700 comments. Personally, I dont like Liars and Hypocrites. You can find the link to it in the last paragraph. "The average 60-year-old woman dates 68-year-old men (and there are very few bachelors still alive and dating in this age bracket). I agree women wants stable relationship when she is over 35 , when her desirability declines. If the article comes off as an attack, I do apologize for that. Also many women has an entitlement mentality. unwanted pregnancies, unnecessary drama, and damaging women). Men who thought they looked bad or didn't like the look of themselves, particularly if they were balding. Become more well rounded and you will become more desirable. Lmao!!! So we should be man enough to look ourselves in the mirror and acknowledge what may be hindering us if we dont to be single. They use that information to diguise themselves to look like what YOU desire and to hook you. Yeah and thats why there are more womens than men and that was why birth is declining and more disease. Thats great, and I applaud you for all those things. But my heart always give to wrong women n i get burn.. One thing they all had common which i didn't see bring up is that out my 2 relationship which i was in love both women did not have there fathers in there life n. On top of that women have kids now so the goodman is already starting a relationship where he's not the center of her world.. N eventually he is overlook undervalued n eventually mistreated because most women think with there emotions n tend to have a change there opinion everyother day I don't believe in women having close male friends or male coworkers.. By doing so u tend to put urnself in comprising situations that in reality lead to cheating I am faithful not because im not attractive cuz my personality alone. Like it's the worst thing on Earth to not be with someone. None of them are true buddy. Rather than developing my confidence from within, I relied on outside influences. 2,4,8 are huge for me as a woman when it comes to a man. Now I agree that many women feel like they can be screwed up & yet make unattainable demands of a man. Lol) but Im soft with the females Ive entertained. Like we are under attack or world population. Its not compassionate, its not sustainable, and its not helping men to better their lives. Do .. See being a good man like this u can only do with a real women because. What you feel about yourself matters a lot and I'm not just talking about mental health. When in reality the reason why these men are still available is because of one of the 12 reasons in my opinion. So many women with many very severe mental issues these days when it comes to us men that are very seriously looking for love now. I noticed you failed to do that. just curious why is it okay for women to have those requirements but why is it outrageous if a guy expects a women whos not fat, no tattoos, less body count? However, I believe in a higher level of personal accountability. They say looking for a good man but instead looking for a bad boy, looking for someone to have sex with them so they can tell their friends about it. Basically, theyre looking for either a symp or an idiot. Here are 13 types of guys who stay single . You Havent Developed A Good Personality. You dont actually think he cares, do you? You have to make sure you dont create any issues in the meantime (i.e. Cuz they have open ears with their loosen tongue all functionin! For starters, good-lookers who have grown up with the world as their oyster ( previous studies have shown that they earn more money and perform . Men are single because they want to be, point blank period. Your not getting anywhere but giving yourself a bad rep Im a good woman and I do respect. My name Is Mark!! Resist giving in to lust and you resist their power over you. We confuse those things for confidence, success, and being smooth. It can definitely stunt the potential of a relationship or even destroy a current one. These women are just very pathetic altogether now unfortunately, and i know other friends that had women Curse them out for no reason too. 1 Carlos Alcaraz beat reigning champion Novak Djokovic in a thrilling five-set men's final on Sunday to win his first Wimbledon title. Sex is not important, and neither are relationships. Indeed, some attractive people would even have moral objections to treating other people that way. That makes sense to me. 1. World No. You spelled pseudo wrong. You are right my social life sucks but a partnership with a woman usually helps that because women almost always have larger social networks than men do. Now if I was looking for some ratchet chick, or a porn star yeah I fuck with her. Most of all the good women in the past were the best ones to meet at that time, compared to the very awful ones that are everywhere today unfortunately. One thing why men are single in my case and if there in a age of 25 to30, I think is not being educate on how to have a successful relationship. What is it like to be handsome and single? a woman had to have had a hand in composing this dumb shyt. 7. I have a concept that says there more obsessed you are with something the more you will strive to get it, because the universe will do everything to stop you from achieving it, Im not saying to stop chasing women, however is for me to dont get obsessed with the idea of getting one in order to be happy or accepted by society standards. I myself am a good looking man that keeps in very great shape with a very nice personality, and i still get rejected by women. The one in the closet. As a community we are doing a horrible job of promoting successful and healthy relationships. And put them in their place? A lot of women tend to be too ready to jump on any guy with a great resume and think here is her chance to finally settle down. A lack of ambition can be very unattractive, and a huge complaint that women have. Some self proclaimed or perceived good men are not open about there homosexuality. Women nowadays unfortunately have so many very high outrageous unrealistic expectations and standards. Just make sure you are truly ready to receive her when she comes, or you may see an amazing opportunity pass you by. regarding the attractiveness issue.. a large number of women are pretty average themselves in looks and do not dress well. Look at how high the divorce rate is and how miserable most women in the US are. The same way that some men are not open about their desire to have multiple women. Yeah Im a 20 yr old virgin, but I have my reasons. This is why men like it when someone calls them handsome. It's why I always reverse image search now, especially if the photos seem a little too good to be true. The Low Hanging Fruit Supermodels are amazing to look at, which is why most men can't help but look at them. Rare indeed is the man who is at such heights where any woman would be happy to fuck him even if he was shit in bed and an utterly garbage person on the way to bed. I believe it's because a handsome guy has no time to chase beautiful girls around more than once because they like the play hard to get shiit. The last guy I was seeing ALREADY moved on (met online), in like a month! : ), the bottom line is that the power in the relationship lies in the one cares the least understand a woman needs you for various reasons while u just need someone to fuck when you want to or have a baby let her think that she has say in matters but dont let her disrespect you because they are worthless unless for fucking or having children other that what the hell you need them for. Being a nice guy, having a good job, etc can only take you so far. When you get with a good person that is the wrong one for you, you risk turning them, and yourself, into a bad person for everybody else. The next one on our list of types of guys who stay single is as close to perfect as they come. What has looks got to do with love? Well with so many women these days that are Not so nice at all to meet which certainly explains it. Hit the nail on the head. In fact, studies also show that men who honk a lot are sexually frustrated beings. Then they will then blame some hapless guy for their problems. Period. My dick works just fine with no problem but all horny at times like a motherfucka while I get shot down just bein so fluent in my own visual language limited to my verbal quality yet dat has not been attracting to women! Do yourself a huge favor and embrace the process of healing. They, just like women, need some validation from time to time. I.think there not enough long term relationship being promoted no more whether it on tv or in books. Thats the reason. At this stage of the game it is probably true. Girls do not like to show initiative and are shy. Is it fair to say the woman is shallow because one of these traits turn her off to that man? I see this all the time. Well now that so many women have their very high unrealistic expectations and standards which really has a lot to do with it. He's immersed in a fierce battle between his superhuman standards and his terror of being 40 and singlebecause 40 and single is not supposed to be part of The Total Package's story. Most women are just so very horrible and evil these days unfortunately, and they just dont have any manners and their personality really stinks as well. 19. Just no longer let fear/lack of confidence be what holds you back. Be open and honest about where you stand and keep your eyes open. I am waiting for one girl, but Im building a relationship (friendship) then seeing where it goes. I think it's more about if we've been in crappy situations where we felt like guys played with our feelings, and he so happened to be handsome and able to get other girls. Pfft! He then chides you for the weakness you also labor under. A lot of guys that are good men do not have the confidence it takes to attract and keep a woman. Required fields are marked *. Similarly, we(ive made some minor edits from your original writing): may be good girls, but we might just not be ready or receptive to a commitment right now. Only a simp will fall for marriage, as sad as it is. Dont look at it that way. No wonder why our family members had it very easy finding love back then. Most women have shit jobs make next to nothing they love a drink which is a massive turn off for me .. my fellow men who gives a flying fuck be yourself if your lucky enough to.live in a country where brothels are legal (like me) thats all you need when i feel sex I go get myself a 20 yo something with a tight body and ride that.. $350 aud Im good.. its easy change whenever you want without all the bullshit of texting back and forth dates you dont really want to be on ohh and massive disappointment when she arrives with photos filtered to fuck or are from 10 years ago, Brothers there are men who would kill to be single I know i was one of them.. Im lucky i have my little dude if she comes she comes till then enjoy.